What is SETLIC
A no-filter love-type test. Answer 32 questions and SETLIC maps how you actually love across 6 axes — then names you as one of 30 types.
Definition
A love type test identifies the patterns you repeat in romantic relationships — who you’re drawn to, how you handle closeness and conflict, and why your relationships tend to end the same way. Unlike general personality tests, it measures how you behave specifically in love, which is often different from how you behave everywhere else.
SETLIC is a love type test built on six psychological axes — and the name itself is the framework:
Thirty-two questions score these six axes and place you in one of 30 love types — a pattern, not a grade. From there, SETLIC offers premium relationship coaching reports: personalized in-depth analyses that read your specific answers and turn your type into concrete guidance for the relationship you’re actually in.
6 Psychological Axes
Do you wobble at one late reply, or stay steady?
Do you hide what you feel, or show it?
When it gets tense, do you shut down or talk it out?
Is comfort enough, or do you crave new sparks?
Happy with now, or picturing a future together?
Need your own space, or always want to be close?
Why SETLIC
Why do you keep falling for the same type of person — and getting hurt the same way? SETLIC reads the unconscious patterns you repeat in love.
Not a horoscope. A read on the patterns you repeat in love — the ones you can't see from the inside.
Best matches, danger zones, the moment things fall apart — and a guide to making love last longer and go deeper.
| Love languages | MBTI matching | SETLIC love type test | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Measures | How you give/receive affection | General personality fit | Your behavioral patterns in love |
| Types | 5 languages | 16 types | 30 love types |
| Focus | Communication style | Similarity | Attraction, conflict, endings |
| Tells you | What to say | Who’s similar | Why you repeat the same relationship |
All three are useful — but only one explains why you keep falling for the same person and getting hurt the same way.
30 Love Types
secure, draws others in
anxious, reaches for closeness
avoidant, pulls back
holds it all inside
torn, hard to pin down
light, craves freedom
rare, intense patterns
FAQ
Yes. The 32-question test and your core type result are free. Optional in-depth reports are paid.
Love languages describe how you express affection. A love type test goes wider — it maps who you're drawn to, how you handle distance and conflict, and the pattern your relationships follow from start to end.
About 5 minutes. 32 situation-based questions — no email or sign-up required to see your type.
They span seven clusters: Magnetic (like GLOW), Pursuing (like CHASE), Withdrawing (like WALL), Bottling, Wandering, Free, and Hidden types. Each type describes a distinct pattern of loving, not a score.
The six axes draw on established relationship psychology, including attachment research. It's designed for self-reflection, not clinical diagnosis.